Facing Our Journey

“When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you Isaiah 43:2

Life often takes us through seasons of darkness—times of loss, pain, sickness, broken relationships, and grief. These struggles can isolate us, leaving us feeling lost and disconnected. Yet, within these moments lies your victory, for renewal, and for life.

A sister friend recently shared her journey of losing her mother seven years ago. Her grief pulled her into a deep depression, disconnecting her from her family for four years. She described days spent in bed, consumed by sadness. But after those years of struggle, she began to see a light 💡 in the darkness. She tapped into memories of her mother—her humor, her voice, her character—and used them to bring joy and light back into her life. She found victory in remembering, in honoring her mother, and in allowing those memories to bring healing.

Victory is not the absence of struggle; it’s the triumph over it. It’s choosing to rise, to keep moving forward, even when it feels impossible. Many people go through the motions of life—going to work or school—but behind the scenes, they’re battling their own dark places. The bed feels like a trap; the house, a prison. But even in those moments, there is hope.

For those who believe in God, His word reminds us, “I will never leave you or forsake you” Deuteronomy 31:6. Even when we feel forsaken, God is present. He breathes life into us and calls us out of darkness into HIS light. Yet, even as believers, we are not immune to depression, isolation, or grief. But coming out on the other side of those struggles is the victory God promises—a victory of life and abundance.

As I read my sister friend’s story, I reflected on my own journey with loss. I know the weight of darkness, the grip of isolation, and the sting of depression. I’ve felt the struggle to move, to care, to hope. And yet, I’ve also experienced the power of stepping forward, even if only one small step at a time. I’ve learned to honor my loved ones—my mother, father, and others who have passed—not by staying stuck in grief but by living fully in their memory.

Encouragement for the Holiday Season 🎄🎁

This holiday season can be especially difficult. Empty chairs at the table, missing voices, and cherished traditions will amplify the pain of loss. But I encourage you to honor those you’ve lost by continuing the traditions they loved. Celebrate their lives, even through your tears. Cook their favorite dish, tell their favorite stories, and let their memories live on through you.

The story of the Israelites coming out of bondage is a powerful reminder of the struggle on the path to victory. They were promised a land of milk and honey, yet many grumbled, doubted, and even longed to return back to their bondage. The journey was difficult, but the promise was worth it.

Today, I urge you: Do not go back. Do not let the struggle pull you away from the victory that lies ahead. Keep Moving Forward!! Victory is not a destination; it’s a journey. One step at a time, one day at a time, keep moving forward.

I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world. John 16:33